For unmarried couples aka still dating, certainly often dreaming and dreaming that someday he wants to have a happy and harmonious home life, and what is imagined is just the beauty of life with a partner he loves in the future. It may even not occur in their minds about problems that might be present in domestic life later. Even though in reality, there are things that will invite fights and even trivial problems. Because it is undeniable, in every household life there will be arguments and disputes that come unexpectedly, both from outside and inside.
To foster a happy household it can be said to be easy and difficult. And to reach it requires the role of the couple themselves to achieve their goals in marriage. And the problem is, after getting married and going through the household sometimes there are things that are not in line with our expectations. Like the words of people, the first 5 years of marriage are a hard start. Why is that? Didn’t you know each other before marriage? And during dating relationships are fine. The answer is because life during courtship and after marriage is different.
When dating, we already know the character of each partner. And our world is just a relationship and expressing affection for a partner. All that is required is loyalty and togetherness. While entering domestic life, what is demanded is not just loyalty and togetherness, but more than that. Here we have the responsibility, and each of … Read More